Presencing

Presencing

Category
Managing Self-Control
When To Use?
When we are in an angry or heated state
Definition
Interrupting a flow state by placing attention over one's body

Background

Iā€™m in flow whenever my attention is moving in patterned, predictable, automatic ways. This is always happening within some specific, narrow field of attention. Examples:
  • In an argument, we will be laser-focused on the way people communicate their reasons.
  • While writing, we concentrate on sensing the resonance between written words and feelings.
  • When brushing our teeth, some attention is in tune with a sense of how much time we spend in each part of the mouth.
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Process

By rearranging the field of attention, presencing breaks us out of these flow states and allows for new, unpredictable action.
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Also see Tonglen
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Also see Focusing
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